Iris Lila - Bodyworker, Tantra & Yoga Teacher and Life Coach

Sessions for Couples

Couples Massage Instruction

$500/3 Hours (Both partners receive massage) or $350/2 hrs (one partner learns to give other partner massage).

I also offer side-by-side massage with no instruction; See below for rates.

Nothing gives me greater joy than teaching relaxing, loving touch to enhance the intimacy and connection in your relationship. Everything is within your boundaries, whether you want a purely educational experience or a relaxing experience with a little teaching thrown in. In this session, we can:

  • Explore simple ways to connect more deeply, and guide your partner in how to touch you
  • Learn how to fully give and fully receive, both relaxing and arousing touch for the whole body (sensual, but not sexual touch)
  • Learn simple Tantric tools to experience more sensation in your body, and connection in your touch
  • For men: learn how to have non-ejaculatory orgasms (I teach you techniques to take home with you, not to do during the session)
  • For women: receive exactly the kind of touch you want
  • Consciously explore fantasies or desires within your boundaries

"We just want to thank you for meeting with us yesterday and showing us the techniques of Tantra. This is something that the both of us were looking to seek information on. Now we have more ways to please each other than we could ever imagine. We both can't stop thinking about yesterday afternoon and yesterday evening when we got home!"
-Satisfied Couple

Double Goddess Session for Couples

$500/hr, $650/90 min, $750/2hrs, $900/3 hrs

In this decadent exploration, you can relax into the knowing touch and instruction from two experienced facilitators of touch and connection. I work with my best friend and colleague Christina. First we lead both of you in exercises to connect more deeply with each other, then we can EITHER massage BOTH of you, OR we can guide you in how we massage each other, while you follow along. It is naturally decadent and the most pleasurable thing thats actually good for you :)

I'm so glad that we met you and had a real experience to share with someone who expresses such a high level of care and awareness. Thank you too for showing us new ways to begin, enjoy and end the moments [my wife] and I got to share together. We'll certainly remember the excitement but the teachings you provided about breathing, circular reciprocation and slowing down my touch will stay with us much longer."